Definition Rewrite — bglunk

Happiness without meaning or purpose is equivalent to a life with no meaning. What are ones purpose on this Earth if there is no meaning in their life. As a general idea, happiness is most commonly described as feeling or showing pleasure or content. What makes ones life pleasurable varies from person to person. Is there a difference between long-term happiness and momentary happiness? Can different people be happy in different aspects of their lives? The definition of happiness and meaning are extremely different. “when you ask people what makes their lives worth living, they rarely say anything about their mood. They are more likely to cite things that they find meaningful, such as their work or relationships.”(Acacia Parks). A person who genuinely appreciates life is someone whose life has a lot of meaning. These are the givers, not the takers. The selfish “takers” live lives that are solely based on things they can benefit from. These types of people will never get far in life. A meaningful life trumps a happy life every time.

Meaning can also be defined in many different ways depending on the person. Meaning is defined as something that is not directly expressed. What gives a persons life meaning is not usually out there in the open for everyone to know, that is what makes it special and worth something. “It’s important to understand that for many people, a sense of meaning and happiness in life overlap; many people score jointly high (or jointly low) on the happiness and meaning measures in the study. But for many others, there is a dissonance — they feel that they are low on happiness and high on meaning or that their lives are very high in happiness, but low in meaning.” (Smith 2013). Out of the two it is clear that meaning is worth more to oneself then happiness.

There is currently a show on television that can portray this kind of selfish “happiness with no meaning.” Many may not watch reality television but those that d0 would know The Real Housewives of Atlanta can be used as a prime example. The show follows some of the wealthiest women in Atlanta. The wealthy and “high class” women are followed around by cameras showing things such as the work, family, and leisure their lives consist of. Although these women seem to have everything they could ever ask for when the exterior is pulled away the deeper side is shown. No amount of money, job, object, even marriage is ever enough to keep the women happy. Every time something extravagant happens there is always mention of something more extravagant that could of happened. This TV show in itself can prove that happiness through fortune, fame, and material objects is never really happiness. In the end everyone always wants more and more to try to fill some sort of void their life has. This type of happiness is only skin deep, the deeper kind comes from meaning in ones life, something these women do not possess.

Psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor Viktor Frankl once wrote, “Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose.”(Grewal 2014). Without meaning life would just pass by, nothing left but materialistic memories and uneventful.

Works Cited
Grewal. “A Happy Life May Not Be a Meaningful Life.” Scientific American Global RSS. N.p., 2014. Web. 01 Mar. 2015.

“Happiness.” PBS. PBS, n.d. Web. 19 Feb. 2015.

” Http://search.proquest.com/docview/1534304114?pq-origsite=summon. N.p., 8 June 2014. Web. Feb. 2015.
Smith, Emily Esfahani. “Meaning Is Healthier Than Happiness.” The Atlantic. Atlantic Media Company, 01 Aug. 2013. Web. 03 Mar. 2015

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3 Responses to Definition Rewrite — bglunk

  1. davidbdale's avatar davidbdale says:

    One quick question for you, bglunk. Remember the Open Strong exercise? I was just critiquing your post for that little assignment. In the post for that exercies, I made these recommendations for a good opening sentence:

    Makes strong, perhaps paradoxical claims.
    Sums up a very strong argument the essay will make.
    Is itself an argument.
    Makes a challenge to the reader.
    Is memorable.
    Can be debated, demonstrated, illustrated.
    Is a good example of itself.

    Which of these rules for writing does your first sentence follow?

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  2. bglunkcomp2's avatar bglunkcomp2 says:

    I have been working on making connections like you suggested in our conference to reality television.Is the connection I made strong enough to support my argument. feedback requested.

    Feedback provided. —DSH

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    • davidbdale's avatar davidbdale says:

      Do you want your first sentence to be:
      “Happiness without meaning is life without meaning”?

      —one’s
      —You cannot mix ONE with THEIR
      —This time you want WHOSE, not WHO’s.

      Honestly, I cannot tell whether the thesis of your first paragraph is that Happiness results from a life of meaning, or whether you mean the only life worth living is the meaningful life, whether it’s happy or not. I shouldn’t be so confused.

      But you asked me specifically about the incorporation of the TV illustration. I’m looking forward to it, bglunk. The first paragraph is so vague I can’t begin to paraphrase it.

      P3. Style note: PLEASE combine the first two sentences into one that eliminates the apology and declares its intentions clearly, such as:
      The popular TV show Real Housewives of Atlanta is a beauty-is-skin-deep illustration of selfish “happiness with no meaning.”

      If you’re trying very hard to prove that the Housewives are not truly happy, then don’t call what their money gives them happiness, blgunk! Find a way to say “This TV show in itself can prove that happiness through fortune, fame, and material objects is never really happiness” without using the word happiness either time.

      Have you incorporated the Housewives material into your essay? Sure. Is there a better way? I think there’s a much better way. Instead of spending two paragraphs to warm us up with confusing abstractions, start strong! (See the post titled “Start Strong!”) How about:

      Have the “Real Housewives of Atlanta” found “Real Happiness” in their lavish lifestyles? They may say they have, but the look in their eyes as they dish the dirt on their fellow “reality stars” reminds us more of the “Desperate Housewives” of a TV generation ago.

      I make you one promise. Once you have your readers visualizing the panic and anger in those women’s faces as they brag about their empty acquisitions, you’ll find it MUCH EASIER to get them to understand your abstractions about meaning and fulfillment. Trust me on this one. Start with the housewives. Half the work is done before you make a single reference to your research.

      Grade Code 5D3.
      (But before you can achieve that grade, you need to fix the many grammar and word usage problems that you make repeatedly, including trouble with pronouns and possessives.) Please ask for specific help if you can’t find help locating these problems, which will kill a grade.

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